We All Need To Be Loved

We All Need To Be Loved
In this very busy world of rush around, and do this and that, people in general have turned off the wonderful emotional part of themselves. Some say it's for self protection. Others will tell you they don't have time because they have too many things they "WANT" to do with their lives. There are those that will concede, money is the reason for their lives.

To me these are excuses for not really living.

Self Protection Hurts You
When you close off your feelings for protection purposes, you prevent yourself from being the true loving soul you are meant to be. Yes we all have experiences that hurt, however when you deal with that from an emotional level, (and stand in your own truth with it) loving again and being open to loving becomes much easier.
No two human beings are exactly the same, so isn't it time to stop passing judgment on everyone, because of one or two people?
Self protection from loving=loneliness and depression.
That is how this self protection hurts you.

Too Busy
Many of us wake up and rush into the shower,
-take the children to day care
-head off to work
-pick up groceries after work
-pick up the children
-cook dinner
-do some hous work
-get ready for a well needed rest
Only to start all over again the next morning.

That constant go..go..go, is usually just for wants.
Our society is so judgmental and greed driven that many people fall into the trap of not listening to what their spirit needs. Instead, they listen to what society deems as the standard.

Ask yourself these questions an ponder upon it before you answer!

1- Are you tired all the time, and still don't have "YOU" time?
2-Is there someone in your family needing you, more than what you can give?
3-Are there road blocks in what you are spending all your time on ?

If you are tired all the time and still don't have enough time or you time, you must ask yourself if the path you've taken is worth it. Only you can answer this.
Is your happiness worth what you are doing ?

There is no amount money that can compare to the time spent with your family. If you feel inside that you are ripping someone off time wise that really needs you, listen to that inner voice. In the long run, you will happy you did.

Road blocks is the tough one. You have to already be in a state of watching and listening to the signs that the universe is providing for you. If it feels like you are going in circles not getting anywhere there is a good chance you are not getting anywhere. Ask for signs from the Creator. You will get them.

Standing in your own truth is so very important.

Money Motivated Living
I think this one is more prevalent in life today than anything else.
Many are chasing the all mighty dollar. If a piece of paper determines your worth I have to say without judging that your life really isn't worth very much. Sure today's society again sets the standards, but I am sure you would rather be a leader than a follower. If you stand in your own truth, you know if you have the basis covered (fed, housed and clothed). You are already further ahead than many that have nothing. So what if you don't have that fancy car, or swanky house. The richest people I know have a generosity, and abundance of spirit that shines through more than anything. That to me is wealth. Money is a tool to be used for good things. What I mean by that is giving without expectation of receiving in return is true giving. That is being rich.

So how do you ask does that apply to the title ? "We All Need To Be Loved" These are mere steps loving yourself. When you love yourself, without limits, love returns to you. When you take the time to get off the rat race tread mill, you are beginning to listen to what the universe has planned for you vs. what you have planned for you. You live much more fully as a loving being on a daily basis, than you do as one following the masses. 10% of the people in the world do a job that they love. What happens to the other 90%? Be one of the 10%. Love the job you have, or find one you do love. We all need to be loved. When everything in your life is positive and smoothly flowing, you exude love and you begin to truly live.

© Dårla The Spiritual Place 2008